With the girls on a short break from school, the middle A and I joined my husband R for a day in San Francisco.
Until recently, A would talk about how much she loved San Francisco, how it was the best city in the entire world, and how she was going to be a marine biologist when she grew up.
Now she doesn’t believe any of that.
I’m not sure myself and if you’ve got a reasonable explanation, please send it my way.
Now she wants to move to L.A. and be famous!
The only difference between my upbringing and hers is that I’ll encourage her to be whatever she wants… Within reason.
Her godparents are part-time actors and models but they’re also graduates of UC Davis and highly successful in their careers. One of my best friends said it best when she believed our parents were right in pushing us towards practical majors that led to actual careers (even though at the time, my soul was crushed). R even said the other day that we are in a place in our lives where we can freely pursue our dreams with his retirement and my career. I’m still trying to figure out if writing is still my dream. Sometimes I look around and feel so grateful for my husband,
(Some of) my friends,
In the meantime, I want A to do both. She can go to college and prepare herself for a great career AND she can go for her dreams.
She can and she will.
We had a wonderful time at the Chuldren’s Creativity Museum at Yerba Buena Gardens. I was afraid that the museum would be too young for her. Upon entry there are so many activities for toddlers and preschoolers but we quickly found other amazing exhibits for her age!
We made our own clay figurines and created a stop motion movie!